truth about hurt and the deception in personal relationships.

this assignment is about the truth about hurt and the deception in personal relationships. I have placed all the detail needed for this essay. everything that is required is below. I have placed 4 links for you to use the first two links are about the assignment you could pick either or and the other two links are to use in a google docs for an eBook the title of the book is close encounters the cover of the book is in the additonal materials down below. there is also another ebook below for you to use. any questions please let me know.
paper needs to be in apa format and sources must be in apa also. i have put down 4 sources needed but you might only need 3 of them if you need all 4 then you use them but you might only need 3 sources

The Truth About Hurt and Deception in my Personal Relationships?” This reflection is intended to help you explore the relational dynamics of both hurt in general and the challenges of deception or infidelity in particular (Chp 13). Consider Smith’s essay and how you can use his ideas here. If your essay involves infidelity, you use Perel’s TedTalk. Discuss relevant lessons from Chodron here as they apply to deception

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/whats_good_about_lying?

https://drive.google.com/open?id=19Z2BwRfkLpU__eijMm0IL54wcK_RYicu

https://drive.google.com/open?id=1M8blZS-o_NBa2zxFFTf2wRGNEe8voxVP